One place. Fewer questions. Done.
Everything your spouse keeps asking you about, written down in one place, finished fast and off your honey-do list finally
Your spouse has mentioned this. Repeatedly. You have nodded thoughtfully and said, "I'll get to it." This is the get-to-it part.
Fine. I wrote it down.
Our promise: If your spouse isn't happy that you finally started to write things down, email me within 15 days and I will refund your purchase.
$17.00
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The real opportunity
Why did I create this?
Because my wife asked often enough I was running out of respectable excuses. So, I created a quick and easy workbook to finally get it done.
This workbook puts all the answers in one place, if for nothing else but peace of mind.
Before
- "I think we have an account there."
- "Somewhere in my benefits portal."
- Five "good hiding places" for the important papers
- Fourteen texts to find out who fixes the furnace
After
- One place for what exists, who to call and what to do next
- One known location for the originals
- The house keeps running without you on the phone
- Your spouse knows it's handled
Paid once. No subscription.
How it works
Why this works
- Built to be finished, not admired. Fill in the blanks, skip what doesn't apply, and cross it off the honey-do list. Done is the goal, not a perfect filing system.
- Write the useful details right in the guide: names, companies, last four digits and who to call. Live passwords stay protected somewhere else.
- Short on time? Start with the five things that matter most this week. Five useful things beat fifty planned things.
What you get
Everything inside Everything You Keep Asking Me About
- Both editions: a U.S. edition and a Canadian edition, each with the right names for that country's accounts, documents and agencies
- Two versions, both included: an electronic fillable version you can type straight into, and a PDF version
- The 10-section fill-in guide, with ready-made tables for your accounts, insurance, property and house services
- "If You Only Do Five Things This Week": the quick start
- The "Fine, I'll Do It" progress page, to show your spouse there is, in fact, a plan
- How to have the conversation without making it weird
- The annual "Is this still true?" check
- Digital legacy setup for your Apple and Google accounts, step by step
- Choosing a password manager and keeping passwords safe
- The "Did I Forget Anything?" page, plus extra pages for when a section needs more room
Paid once. No subscription.
Our promise: If your spouse isn't happy that you finally started to write things down, email me within 15 days and I will refund your purchase.
The path
Step by step
The Stuff Only You Know
Because "I know where everything is" is not much help to anyone else.
People, Pets and Other Dependents
The dog remains unimpressed by your paperwork.
The Important Paperwork Pile
It is not organized because it is all in one drawer.
Where the Money Actually Is
A surprisingly useful alternative to "I think we have an account there."
Insurance You Forgot You Had
Apparently "somewhere in my benefits portal" isn't very helpful.
The Stuff You Own
The house is obvious. The storage unit full of "important things" is less obvious.
Your Digital Life, Which Is Somehow Most of Your Life
Accounts, recovery methods, and the family photos and videos that can't be replaced.
Running the House Without Texting You 14 Times
If you spent a month at a cabin with no cell service, what would your spouse need to know by day three?
Who Needs to Be Told
The official calls are easier when the list already exists. Plus every subscription: renewal, cost, card and how to cancel.
The Personal Stuff You Should Say Out Loud
A few lines now can save your family a lot of guessing.
The process
How to start
Get the guide and pick your edition.
Do the five things this week.
Fill in the rest, then tell your spouse it's off the honey-do list.
Your guarantee
- If your spouse isn't happy that you finally started to write things down, email me within 15 days and I will refund your purchase.
Paid once. No subscription.
Get started
Everything you get today
Everything You Keep Asking Me About
- Both editions: a U.S. edition and a Canadian edition, each with the right names for that country's accounts, documents and agencies
- Two versions, both included: an electronic fillable version you can type straight into, and a PDF version
- The 10-section fill-in guide, with ready-made tables for your accounts, insurance, property and house services
- "If You Only Do Five Things This Week": the quick start
- The "Fine, I'll Do It" progress page, to show your spouse there is, in fact, a plan
- How to have the conversation without making it weird
- The annual "Is this still true?" check
- Digital legacy setup for your Apple and Google accounts, step by step
- Choosing a password manager and keeping passwords safe
- The "Did I Forget Anything?" page, plus extra pages for when a section needs more room
Just $17.00
Paid once. No subscription.
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Questions
Questions, answered
Does this replace my will?
No. It is an organizer and logbook. It does not create, change or replace a will, power of attorney, trust or living will. It tells your spouse where those documents are and who to call.
Is this legal or financial advice?
No. It helps you organize household, legal, financial and digital information. Rules vary by U.S. state and Canadian province or territory, so confirm legal, tax and estate matters with a professional where you live.
Do I write my passwords in it?
No. Write names, companies, last four digits and contacts. For live passwords, PINs and seed phrases, write only where they are safely stored.
Does it work in Canada?
Yes. You get both editions. The Canadian edition uses Canadian names throughout: RRSP and TFSA, Service Canada and the CRA, and provinces and territories. Use the one for where you live.
What if my spouse still isn't happy?
If your spouse isn't happy that you finally started to write things down, email me within 15 days and I will refund your purchase.
Everything your spouse keeps asking you about, written down in one place, finished fast and off your honey-do list finally
$17.00
Paid once. No subscription.